Marriage and Family

Conflict

• 6 Steps for Resolving Conflict in Marriage
• Style Under Stress - Assessment (Crucial Conversations)

Listening Skills

• Become a Better Listener: Active Listening

Infidelity

• AskGottman: Affairs Answers
• Heal Fractured Relationships with These 7 Tools
• How to Talk to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family
• Redeeming Sex: Naked Conversations About Sexuality and Spirituality

General

• Determining Your Core Values
• What Is Your Family’s ‘Brand’?
• 6 Surprises Every Premarital Counselor Should Cover

Podcasts

• Heroic Journeys in Boundaries and Love by Dr. Brad Reedy
• Nerd-out on Bonding by Johnson and Skinner

Parenting

• Parenting is Gospel Ministry by Paul Tripp

Pornography and Sex Addiction - Addict

• Sexual Behavior Self-Assessment (Stringer)
• Porn Addiction Test
• Pure Desire Online

Websites

• Freedom Fight great place to start
• Your Brain on Porn
• Covenant Eyes
• Fight the New Drug
• The Samson Society
• X3watch
• XXXchurch
• Intimacy Anorexia
• Pure Desire tool set (excellent)
• Overcoming Enmeshment

Apps

• Freedom Fight App

Videos

• Gary Wilson - The Great Porn Experiment
• Joe Herzanek - discussion on Sexual Addiction
• The Backwards Brain Bicycle on neural reprogramming
  
• Porn Is A Public Health Issue - Gabe Deem
• Internal Family Systems & Addiction w/ Jenna Riemersma (FULL EPISODE)

Articles

• Brain Chemicals and Porn: How Porn Affects Your Brain
• My Choice Between Marriage and Porn

Abstinence

• Should Married Couples Fast from Sex During Porn-Detox?
• Negotiating a Sex & Abstinence Contract With My Husband

Handouts

• Pure Desire Accountability
• Pure Desire Parental Resources

Podcasts

• The Place We Find Ourselves
• Interview with Heath Lambert on Porn
• My Sin Feels Good in the Moment — Why Stop?
• Why Do Addicts Lie?

Polygraph

• see "Formal Therapeutic Disclosure" heading on the left
• The truth about Polygraph Exams

Pornography and Sex Addiction - Spouse

• Bloom For Women
• Pure Desire Online
• Pure Desire tool set (excellent handouts)

Next Steps

• What Every Wife of a Sex Addict Has a Right to Know About Her Husband’s Recovery
• How to Talk to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family

Abstinence

• Should Married Couples Fast from Sex During Porn-Detox?
• Negotiating a Sex & Abstinence Contract With My Husband

Podcasts

• The Place We Find Ourselves
• Interview with Heath Lambert on Porn
• My Sin Feels Good in the Moment — Why Stop?
• Why Do Addicts Lie?

Polygraph

• see "Formal Therapeutic Disclosure" heading on the left
• The truth about Polygraph Exams

Bonding

• Nerd-out on Bonding: Dr. Sue Johnson and Dr. Kevin Skinner

Betrayal Trauma

What is it?

• What Is Betrayal Trauma?
• 5 Steps to Continue Healing from Betrayal Trauma

Tools

• Partners of Sex Addicts Impact Letter

Books

• Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal
• Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts
• Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal

Videos

• Intimate Deception / Dr. Sheri Keffer 1
• Intimate Deception / Dr. Sheri Keffer 2
• Internal Family Systems & Betrayal w/ Jenna Riemersma (FULL EPISODE)

Betrayal Trauma for Men

What is it?

• What Is Betrayal Trauma?

Tools

• Partners of Sex Addicts Impact Letter

Books

• Hope for Men
• Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts
• Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal

Videos

• Hope For Betrayed Men (FULL EPISODE)
• Intimate Deception / Dr. Sheri Keffer 1
• Intimate Deception / Dr. Sheri Keffer 2

Recovery Strategies

Accountability

• 5 Tips to Accountability on Smartphones
• What Are the Best Protective Software Programs for Recovering Sex, Porn, and Love Addicts?

Formal Therapeutic Disclosure

To Spouse

• The lie detector test that saved my marriage
• Recommendations from Dr. Jill Manning

To Children

• Should Parents Who Are Sex Addicts Tell Their Children?

Polygraphs

• Polygraphs In Marriage Therapy

Online Courses

• Transforming Trauma
• Grief Grid
• Cycle of Addiction
• 5 Biggest Mistakes After Betrayal