Smith Click each heading for more details
Handouts
- The Color of Feelings
- The Color of Feelings (via Google Search)
- Determining Your Core Values
- EMDR Cognitions
Marriage and Family
Conflict
- Conflict Is Neutral
- 6 Steps for Resolving Conflict in Marriage
- Style Under Stress - Assessment (Crucial Conversations)
- What Couples In Conflict Can Learn From Twelve Step Recovery Programs
Listening Skills
Infidelity
- AskGottman: Affairs Answers
- Heal Fractured Relationships with These 7 Tools
- Steps to Rebuild Trust using Gottmann Model
- The ONE Belief Every Betrayed Partner Must Embrace
- How to Talk to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family
- Redeeming Sex: Naked Conversations About Sexuality and Spirituality
General
- Determining Your Core Values
- What Is Your Family’s ‘Brand’?
- 6 Surprises Every Premarital Counselor Should Cover
Podcasts
- Heroic Journeys in Boundaries and Love by Dr. Brad Reedy
- Nerd-out on Bonding by Johnson and Skinner
Parenting
- Parenting is Gospel Ministry by Paul Tripp
Pornography and Sex Addiction - Addict
Websites
- Freedom Fight great place to start
- Your Brain on Porn
- Covenant Eyes
- Fight the New Drug
- The Samson Society
- X3watch
- XXXchurch
- Intimacy Anorexia
- Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST)
- Pure Desire tool set (excellent)
- Overcoming Enmeshment
Apps
Videos
- Gary Wilson - The Great Porn Experiment
- Joe Herzanek - discussion on Sexual Addiction
- The Backwards Brain Bicycle on neural reprogramming
- Porn Is A Public Health Issue - Gabe Deem
- Internal Family Systems & Addiction w/ Jenna Riemersma (FULL EPISODE)
Articles
- Signs of Sex Addiction
- 8 Natural Dopamine Boosters to Overcome Depression
- Porn, Pride, and Praise
- Brain Chemicals and Porn: How Porn Affects Your Brain
- My Choice Between Marriage and Porn
Abstinence
- Should Married Couples Fast from Sex During Porn-Detox?
- Negotiating a Sex & Abstinence Contract With My Husband
Handouts
Podcasts
- Pure Desire Podcasts
- The Place We Find Ourselves
- Interview with Heath Lambert on Porn
- My Sin Feels Good in the Moment — Why Stop?
- Why Do Addicts Lie?
Polygraph
- see "Formal Theraputic Disclosure" heading on the left
- The truth about Polygraph Exams
Pornography and Sex Addiction - Spouse
- Bloom For Women
- Pure Desire Online
- The ONE Belief Every Betrayed Partner Must Embrace
- Pure Desire tool set (excellent handouts)
Next Steps
- Signs of Sex Addiction
- What Every Wife of a Sex Addict Has a Right to Know About Her Husband’s Recovery
- How to Talk to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family
Understanding Porn and Sex Addiction
Abstinence
- Should Married Couples Fast from Sex During Porn-Detox?
- Negotiating a Sex & Abstinence Contract With My Husband
Podcasts
- Pure Desire Podcasts
- The Place We Find Ourselves
- Interview with Heath Lambert on Porn
- My Sin Feels Good in the Moment — Why Stop?
- Why Do Addicts Lie?
Polygraph
- see "Formal Theraputic Disclosure" heading on the left
- The truth about Polygraph Exams
Bonding
Betrayal Trauma
What is it?
Tools
Books
- Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal
- Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts
- Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal
Videos
Betrayal Trauma for Men
What is it?
Tools
Books
- Hope for Men
- Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts
- Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal
Videos
Recovery Strategies
Letters to Self
Accountability
Formal Therapeutic Disclosure
To Spouse
- Formal Theraputic Disclosure
- Verify For Trust
- The lie detector test that saved my marriage
- Recommendations from Dr. Jill Manning
